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Relationships with property: A pathway toward clearer decision-making

February 13, 2026 / 6 min read

A religious institute’s relationship to property is often complex and emotional. Identifying your role — as owner, user, manager, or landlord — helps clarify benefits, obligations, and next steps as you discern how each property can best serve your members and mission.

Among the relationships that religious institutes navigate, their relationship with property is one of the most complex and emotionally charged for both leaders and members.

Your properties are not just real estate holdings. They’ve been your homesteads, and they hold your history. They conjure collective meaning and shape communal memories. They’re cherished sacred spaces and holy ground. All of that is true.

What is also true is that the buildings and land that were once abuzz with activity and life may now represent more of a burden than a blessing and present more problems than purpose.

As you discern the future of your properties, wading through the questions and complexities related to property concerns can be overwhelming. One place to start is to consider the ways in which you are in relationship with your property and to consider which, if any, of those relationships are essential for your needs.

The bullets and illustration below depict the basic relationships that religious institutes often have with property and options for consideration as you discern the nature of the relationship with property that can best serve you now and into the future.

You may be in one, more than one, or all of these relationships with a single piece of property, or you may have varied relationships with various pieces of property.

Religious institutes relationships with property flow chart, starting first with the institute as owner, manager, and user and splitting into three options for alternative relationships that the institute could enter into: landlord, landlord with third-party property manager, and tenant only.

Each relationship holds benefits and obligations. The nature of your relationships with your property indicates the scope and nature of the benefits and obligations that belong to you. The more relationships you have with a particular piece of property, the more complex your benefits and obligations are. Assessing benefits and obligations in light of your current and future needs and circumstances will help clarify next steps and considerations.

The remainder of the article provides descriptions of the general benefits and obligations associated with various relationships you may have or wish to have with your property. We’ll start with the highest complexity and work our way down to the lowest complexity.

Owner, Manager, and User

This is the most common set of relationships — and the most complex — that religious institutes have with their property. You own the property, manage the upkeep of the property, and make use of the property for your institute’s operations, such as residential, health care, and ministry activities.

Benefits:

Obligations:

Based on this information, the following graphic summarizes the relative control, responsibility, and costs of the “Owner, Manager, and User” relationship.

A religious institute’s relationship as owner, manager, and user, generally speaking, has high control, high responsibility, and high cost.

Owner and Manager (not User) = Landlord

This is an example of a set of relationships an institute may have with property when it seeks to maintain certain controls or oversight over leased property. This arrangement may be desirable for property that accommodates shared space or multiple users, or property that the institute may share with another user.

Benefits:

Obligations:

Based on this information, the following graphic summarizes the relative control, responsibility, and costs of the “Landlord” relationship.

A religious institute’s relationship as a landlord, generally speaking, has medium to high control, high responsibility, and low cost.

Owner (not User or Manager) = Landlord with Third-Party Manager

This is a relationship that religious institutes may have with leased property used by sponsored ministries, ministry activities, or other users aligned with the institute’s mission, vision, and values. You own the property, but your institute does not use the property for its own operations, nor do you manage the property. Depending on the management contract in place, you could have little or no responsibility to manage the upkeep of the property. In this relationship, a third-party manager should align with your mission, vision, and values.

Benefits:

Obligations:

Based on this information, the following graphic summarizes the relative control, responsibility, and costs of the “Landlord with Third-Party Manager” relationship.

A religious institute’s relationship as a landlord with a third-party manager, generally speaking, has medium to high control, medium to high responsibility, and low cost.

User Only (Tenant)

The simplest relationship would be that of a user only, or a tenant. This usually represents a relationship that an institute may have with residential property (e.g., motherhouse or senior living) that it once owned, has transitioned to another owner (and manager), and now leases back from the new owner for use by members. This type of transaction is called a sale-leaseback. The terms of use are typically designated in a lease or another legal agreement with the new owner.

Benefits:

Obligations:

Based on this information, the following graphic summarizes the relative control, responsibility, and costs of the “Tenant” relationship.

A religious institute’s relationship as a tenant, generally speaking, has medium to low control, low responsibility, and medium cost.

Comparison of relationship options

To facilitate comparison, the graphic below summarizes each relationship, including relative control, responsibility, and costs. A religious institute may choose any of these roles for the property or none at all.

Religious institutes relationships with property summary, showing the four relationship types and their relative control, responsibility, and costs: institute as owner, manager, and user; institute as landlord; institute as landlord with third-party property manager; and institute as tenant only.

Enabling decision-making amidst emotion

We recognize that responding to the topics in the resource in fruitful and meaningful ways will involve a variety of conversations and could surface an array of emotions among leaders and members. We are available to support and accompany you in that process.

We have accompanied many leaders and communities through discernment, direction-setting, and decision-making related to all sorts of properties, including motherhouses, schools, healthcare facilities, residential spaces, and vacant buildings and land. As you look to address your questions or concerns about property, consider reaching out to us for consultation and support.

Download the relationship with property worksheet

While looking at these scenarios in writing may seem straightforward, the reality of navigating the relationship with property is often logistically and emotionally complicated. As you begin to explore your institute’s relationship with property, we have designed a resource with questions, considerations, and conversation-starters. We hope this tool can assist you as you begin to untangle some of the complexities of your institute’s relationship with property.

The information provided in this article is for reference only and is meant for educational purposes. Your costs and obligations toward your property may vary. Reach out to your Plante Moran Realpoint real estate professional for an assessment of your properties.

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